http://www.waysofthewisewoman.com/ Description en-gb Ways of The Wise Woman Sat, 31 Dec 2011 19:35:00 +0000 info@waysofthewisewoman.com info@waysofthewisewoman.com http://www.waysofthewisewoman.com/news-1.html Distortions occur in the relationship, breaks are needed, letting go a must, but every mother wonders, “when is the right time?” Sat, 31 Dec 2011 19:35:00 +0000 http://www.waysofthewisewoman.com/news-4.html A word about the dads! There is a group of men out there, you know the ones. The ones that are sure they understand their wives pretty well, however, have also seen those same rational women lose it at different stages of their relationship. And it's pretty clear to them, they might need to some assistance as they navigate these uncharted waters. A lot of men are running old anchoring experiences. Knowing how you manage your mother or your sister, or don't. Remembering other moments when things have been intense in the relationship. That night in the storm, or maybe that time when you were mountain climbing together, or making that decision to relocate to the west coast of Canada... Maybe she'll remain calm cool and collected, the same way she managed our wedding without a hitch? Or maybe she'll be as wild as she was those few days leading up to it? Generally it's been my experience the dads show up. They show up knowing there's going to be some challenges, they don't need a lot of preparation for it, generally they read what's needed, show up for the classes, and do the work, however, it's at the moment of birthing when some lights begin to go on, of just what they've gotten themselves into. Some fathers suddenly realize, I'm about to be a father! OMG! Some fathers feel it's a slide, we'll manage it all, no worries, I'm confident in her...here we go. Then all crazy lets lose and sometimes the dad is there holding his newborn son while the doctors are working over his wife, and he's not sure she's going to make it.... Life gets challenging. Most men have no idea what really goes on in a birthing room, because they've only been there once before and everyone else was in charge that time too. So again, it seems there's not a lot they can do this time, either, it's all happening to her, really. I'd like to share, however, that this is your baby too. And knowing what's happening to her, at each stage of the birthing process is going to help you navigate and make good decisions that will solidify your relationship and give her greater confidence in you as her partner, and as the baby's trusted other parent. Generally, I would say that HypnoBirthing helps the fathers as much as the mothers. Often she's reading all the books, and the fathers don't really have much information passed along. Some mothers want them to know everything. Some mothers will only feed them the information they want them to know, like a big filter, reminding everyone "you're very busy". Essentially, you want to know. In the birthing room, it's going to be you making those decisions because she's going to be busy. If you don't know what the process is, those decisions could cost precious seconds. My experience with the fathers is they've enjoyed the experience of learning about what birthing is all about, and they've enjoyed gaining new perspective on their wives. We also provide sessions for fathers to be, and AFTER CARE for Dads. I've had more than one father remind me there's just a chance I'm going to see to much in here. I want my sexual interest for my wife to be strong afterwards. For some dads, this seems a last thought, for some fathers, it can be critical! Learning the new techniques through NLP, Hypnotherapy & HypnoBirthing will give you new tools to manage yourself and your wife, and the new life you will have with your baby! Bookings are available with either Kathy or Harry to resolve any conflicts prior to, or after the birth! BOOK A SESSION NOW: 604-421-1722 Sat, 31 Dec 2011 19:41:00 +0000 http://www.waysofthewisewoman.com/news-3.html Only you get to be the first one in the family They brought five year old Dylan to the hospital with his Grandparents, and he was very excited. He sat with Harry for a bit, and Thu, 07 Jun 2007 09:11:00 +0100 http://www.waysofthewisewoman.com/news-2.html They think about it They look for times when they will be As soon as they have that in place, they start Sun, 08 Jul 2007 21:26:00 +0100